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They may feel their inability to sustain a conversation upon the subject of their recent affliction, and it would then be cruel to force it upon them. On the other hand, a real well-bred man will wish to be useful, and there are certain people whom it is imperative on him to ask to dance-the daughters of the house, for instance, and any young ladies whom he may know intimately; but most of all the well-bred and amiable man will sacrifice himself to those plain, ill-dressed, dull looking beings who cling to the wall, unsought and despairing. Sir, I will not allow you to speak to my servants in that way. And now they are gone, draw your chair near mine, and I will try and talk more pleasantly to you. Divide your attentions amongst several, and never dance twice in succession with the same partner.

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Pass in, indefinxte wait on one side of the entrance till she passes you, to her place at the table. Leave your spoon in your soup plate, that the servant may remove them both. Have you not heard that Napoleon lost the battle of Leipsic by eating too fast? Nothing can be more absurd than for a gentleman to walk between two ladie, holding the umbrella himself; while, in this way, he is perfectly ettifate, the ladies receive upon their dresses and cloaks the little streams of water which run from the points of the umbrella.

Don't sit as glum as the Memnon at Thebes; talk and be pleasant. When you receive an invitation to a ball, answer it im mediately. Speak of the talents or virtues of the deceased, and your sympathy with their loss. It is only in bad society that people go to the opera, concerts, and art-exhibitions mLerely because it is the fashion, or to say.

A card should have nothing written upon it, but your same and address. The best way to assist a lady over a fence, is to indefinaye yourself upon the upper rail, and while using one hand to keep a steady position, stoop, offer her the other, and with a firm, steady grasp, hold her hand until she stands beside you; then let her go down on the other side first, and follow her when she is safe upon the ground.

They are just as often vehicles for the expression of sincere feeling, as they are the mask to conceal a want of it. What can Greek and Latin, French and German be for us in our every-day life, if we have not acquired this?

Do not let your host come with you any farther than the room door if he has other visitors; but if you are showing out a friend, inddefinate leave no others in the parlor, you should come to the street door. In a republican country where one man's opportunities for rising are as good as those of an. True a book will not fully supply the place either of experi.

It will be decidedly condemnatory if you talk of the new opera'Don Giovanni,' or Rossini's' Trovatore,' or are ignorant who composed 'Fidelio,' inrefinate in what opera occur such common pieces as' Ciascun lo dice,' or'II segreto. To leave a card with your ineefinate address, or the nature iindefinate your profession written upon t, shows kndefinate shocking ignorance indefinatw polite society.

You must meet rudeness from others by perfect politeness and p: You will find in every circle that etiquette holds some sway; her rule is despotic in some places, in others mild, and easily set aside. Far from eating with avidity of whatever deli acies whicoh may be upon the table, and which are often served in small quantities, partake of them but sparingly, and decline them when offered the second time. Your C fork is intended to carry the food from your plate to your mouth, and no gentleman ever eats with his knife.

In fact, the rule on which a host should act is to make his visitors as much at home as possible; that on which a visitor should act, is to interfere as little as possible with the domestic routine of the house. Society is a word capable of many meanings, and used here in each and all of them.

Even if convinced that your opponent is utterly wrong, yiel l gracefiully, decline further discussion, or dextrously turr the conversation, but do not obstinately defend your ownr opinion until you become angry, or more ex cited than is becoming to a gentleman. Need I say that no etficate will ever soil his mouth with an oath.

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Thus might I run on for an hour, and after all leave much unsaid on the subject of exaggerated expressions. No man in the United States, excepting His Excellency, the President, can expect to receive calls unless he returns them.

His haste caused indigestion, which made him incapable of attending to the details of the battle. That man etticatw deservedly be looked upon as very deficient in proper respect and feeling, who should take any physical advantage of one of the weaker sex, or offer any personal slight towards her. If thou wilt wake the left hand, then will I go to the right; or if thou depart to the right hand, then I will go to the left.

If, however, the length be not specified, and cannot easily be discovered, a week is the limit for a kndefinate visit, except at the house of a near relation or very old-friend.

He will assist an Irish washerwoman with her large basket or bundle over a crossing, or carry over the little charges of a distressed negro nurse, with the same gentle courtesy which he would extend toward the lady who was stepping from her private carriage. But this applies to every topic. La Bruyere says, " The great charm of conversation consists less in the display of one's own wit and intelli.

Very likely, in my house. If she finds they embarrass her, she will request you to hold them for her, but etiquette requires you not to notice them, unless she etticare of sbem first. If walking alone, he will be ready to offer assistance to any female whom he may see exposed to real peril from any source.